Touching emails that I want to share.....

I will also share those with Cody once he is older.

starting from newest to oldest.

Bev,
 
So happy to hear you have a date to bring him home.  I bet he LOVED his
little trip in the stroller.  Good to get some fresh air and sunshine!
Can't wait to meet him!!!
 
 
Jaime

 

Darling photos...he's such a doll.  I love the sleeping with his hands behind his head.  That shows he's a secure personality and will exhibit confidence and excellent leadership skills as he grows up
He is just too Cute!!!  I love the baseball hat!!   He knows how to relax that's for sure!!
He is just adorable!
Love Mom
Hi Bev,
 
I love the picture of him with the sesame street stuffed dolls.  His eyes are so big!!!  Mikala I think you are the best sister in the world.  You're going to be a big help to Mom and Dad when Cody comes home.
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

Hi Bev-
 
Cody is getting big.  He looks great!  Bet you can't wait for him to see
his new bedroom!
 
 
Jaime

 

 

Hi Bev,
 
He's doing so good and looking so cute!  I love the color of the paint you chose for his room.  The room is going to look adorable.  I bet you can't wait until he's home and you don't have to drive in the city every day.  Hopefully soon???
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

such great news! he looks wonderful!!! hope things continue on the up swing.

xxx

 

Hi Beverly...
Well first things first...you and your husband did an OUTSTANDING JOB MAKING THIS LITTLE GUY....   He is so cute...and he is a happy looking
guy...So you know that he will come out being one of the healthiest kids around. .because he knows he is truly loved...by great parents and grandparents..
I'm sorry he has gone throu so much stuff but this some how will make him so strong...he is a fighter and he will do his little best to come home really soon
to you and yours....And if things get a little ruff for you let your mom know...she's is there for you and him...just ask...I don't know of any grandmother who 
wouldn't be there for you kids ..Irene aka bubbles would do anything for you both...Don't be afraid to ask for help...I hope he'll be out of the hospital by
the time we come back to Chicago for our vacation.. if he isn't that's ok too. because he needs all the help the hospital can give him...Hope to see him...
Thanks for the pictures...your faster then Irene in sending them to us...
My prayers are with all of you and God will take care of that little guy so he can come home to you both.. so you can spoil him crazy...
Take care of yourself also because if you get run down your not going to be any good to him....so you take care
Love Carol.    
P.S. Don't you ever give up on yourself.. you can do this and you also have God helping you always.. You don't see him but he is with you... 

 

Hi Bev,
 
Great news is right.  So glad he made it to the 9th floor.  He is getting so big!!!  I can't believe what a horrifying experience you had with the trach.  It goes to show that parents know what's best.  You have to feel good knowing that you and Sherdell didn't panic and Sherdell knew what the problem was.  It's probably for the best something like that happened so you would know how to take care of it once he is home.
 
You guys have a great week-end and we're still keeping you in our prayers every day.
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

 

He's more and more beautiful every time I see him!!! If you need a friend...you know I'm here for you both.
 
Love you both....
 
Chrissy
Hi Beverly,
 
Thanks for the updates! So glad to hear the good news! We will keep your family in our prayers.
 
God Bless,
 
Love,
Lucy

 

Halleluiah!!  This is great news Bev….I share all of your emails with your cousins.  We’re all praying for him and happy that he’s making such good progress!  I hope you’re feeling better now too…the physical and emotional toll that having a child with serious health issues does knock you down occasionally.  I’m sure your faith in The Lord and a loving husband and family has given you the strength to keep on….not to mention your two beautiful children.

It will never stop amazing me what that little guy (and his parents) have gone through.  He is a fighter!  Good luck on Thursday!
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

Happy 4 Month Birthday Cody…we love you!

Mary Anne, Jamie, Josh, Nicholas, Lucas, Jodie, Matt, Lisa

Maggie, Tommy and Zachary

 

Yah for Cody are prayers are always with u
 
Love & Hugssssss
Chelle
 

 

Hey Bev,
 Keep your head up. Cody is a very lucky little boy to have such a wonderful and devoted mother. I can only imagine how hard it is to go home at night but just think in a very short time Cody will be home with you and in your arms all day and all night. I can not wait for him to come home because I would love to meet him. He is a wonderful, adorable, and very special little boy. Let the good times help bring you through the rough ones. Always remember one baby step back is two giant steps froward.
You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. You are a strong and amazing women. Stay strong. Everyday will only get better. Thanks for the updates.
 Love,
Jen

 

Oh Beverly, I can’t imagine how you must feel right now.  Cody’s no stranger to tough times but I’m sure he feels your love and getting to sit in his Mama’s arms for most of the day had to give him the strength he needs to get through this set back too.  I wish I could put my arms around you and give a big hug….instead I send you a big hug over the internet and ask that God hold you and your family in His arms.  God bless you, your husband, Mikala and Dakota.

Love,  Mary Anne

 

Hi Bev,
 
From everything that I've read about Dakota on your site, and from everything that you've sent out about him, I know that Dakota is strong, and one hell of a fighter! He is going to get through this in no time! And if God is testing you, well then, I think you and your husband are passing with flying colors!! You have such a strong will and dedication to your little boy, it's amazing, and very inspiring. I only wish there were more parents out there like you and your husband! Your children are very lucky to have such wonderful parents!
 
Hang in there Bev....patience is a virtue, and well-rewarded in the end. Keep the faith and it will be returned to you in multitudes!! :)
 
 
Hugs,
Joy

 

I feel you sister and am praying for you. As proud you are of Cody, I'm equally as proud of you guys!! He is the luckiest little baby to have you as his mother. Keep your chin up and keep your positive energy flowing to him.

 

Hi Bev,
 
You guys have been through so much and Cody is doing so good.  He's going to have ups and downs for a long time and you have enough love to get him through it.  I can't even imagine how you two feel going through what you have the last four months.  You have the cutest little boy and he looks so happy.  When you get discouraged just cry it out.  You're entitled to feel sad!!!  All of you are in our thoughts every day.
 
Love,
Uncle Roger and Aunt Linda

 

Bev,

Hang in there.  I know how tough it is.  He is just such a cutie.  I can't wait to see him and hold him.  Remember this is just a small set back,  today is a better day and the sun is out.  Kept you chin up and give that baby a big kiss and hug for me.  If you need to talk just call me. 

Karie

Keep the faith Bev!!! When you have any doubts at all...just look at that precious face. He's absolutely beautiful. If that isn't the face of a real angel....... You're right....God DID give Cody to you both because He knew when he couldn't fight for himself...his Mommy and Daddy would. I know you went through some hard times but  the worst is behind and you have only good things to look forward to. Each day you see him is one day closer to him coming home!!!!!! Before you know it...he's going to be running around the house driving you all crazy!!! Lol. It will be here before you know it. We're told that God has us in just the right place where we all belong. Sometimes we don't understand...but we have to believe. If we lose our beliefs...we have nothing. Stay strong Sweetie. Cody sure is!! I love you all!!
 
Chrissy

 

Bev I know how my much you want Cody home and we are all here if you want to talk , we love you and Cody very much . Before you know it he will be sleeping in his own crib and those days in the hospital will seem so long ago and somewhat forgotten . We all pray that you will taking him home and relaxing by his side . So take care dear one that day is almost here and we can all rejoice for the four of you . Take care and don't be afraid to call if you need to talk or if you need someone to use for a sounding board to let out your feelings I am a good listener . Take care , have a good night and a good day tomorrow .
 
With all my love,
Merry

MySpace Comments - Religious and Christian

 

Oh Beverly, I totally understand how you feel!  Cody is a strong little man he will get stronger and stronger and eventually come home to you.  Just stay healthy and strong for yourself!  Call me if you need to talk -
 
By the way, don't be too discouraged about the transition to the home vent.  Sometimes when they are placed on a new vent they have to get use to it.  It might take some time, don't' rush going to the 9th floor until he is completely fine on the home vent.  We rushed it and ended up in the PICU for even longer.  He just needs to grow and get strong - he looks so good in his pictures! Barbara Murphy

 

Sounds like great news with Cody’s progress.  Although there is a lot to learn on how to take care of him at home it will all be worth it when you guys are just one big happy family at home.   Keep smiling and know that you have lots of people out there thinking of you.  Again as always if there is anything I can help you with please let me know.  Have a great day the sun is finally shining and we are at the start of Spring Break !!!!  There is nothing you can’t do if you put your mind to it and if you ever need to talk I’m here to listen.

Terri

These pictures are so cute.  Hope you guys have a great Easter and we are thinking of you. 

Terri

 

 

Oh how sweet…he must be having a blast doing things that he wasn’t able to do before because of the equipment.  Thanks for sharing all these wonderful photos with us Bev. 

 

BEV,  OMG!!!!!!!! THOSE ARE THE BEST PICTURES I EVER DID SEE!!!!!! HE IS SO HANDSOME......LIKE HIS DADDY...LOL
--
Kris

 

Hi Bev, Spanky and Mikala,  Wow!  I  just love these pictures!!
 He looks so cute and such a BIG BOY!! The outfit is really cute too.
Love Mom 

 

 

We’re all so happy that Cody is doing so well…we pray for him each and every day.  Keep up the great work Cody…

your family loves you very much!

Hi Beverly!!!
Oh he is so cute!!!!   He does look like you!! I'm still downloading Cody's story. aol is so slow. Will get back to you when it is finished! 
Love Mom   Give Mikala a BIG HUG from ME!!!!!!!!

 

 

Bev,
 
What a beautiful montage! I am very pleased to know he is doing better each day. You and the family our in my prayers.  Please stay strong and I'll catch up with you when I get back.

Take Care and talk to you soon!

 

 

Oh Beverly,  I’m speechless…what a beautiful story about a beautiful little boy’s fight for life!  I sat here in my office and cried tears of joy.  Praise God and thank you for sharing his story.  I sent it on to Jamie, Jodie and Matt.  We love you all

 

Dear Bev,

I’m not sure if you remember me or not but I’m one of Amy’s cousins on her mom’s side.  We last met at Amy’s Bridal Shower.  I just wanted you to know that I’m praying for you and that beautiful little boy.  You have all been through so much and it’s very plain to see that you have a son already filled with incredible strength and determination.  My very best wishes to your family.  I can’t wait to see more pictures of him as he gets bigger

Fondly,

Katie (Linda’s niece and Sue McKay’s daughter)

 

Thanks Bev…he gets cuter each time I see him and now he looks so cute because I can see his face unobstructed!  I’m so happy that he’s doing so well.  Keep the photos coming…hopefully we’ll get to meet him in person some day.

 

Just wanted to say we are thinking of you and hope everything is okay.  I was hoping that the third time would work.  He sure is  a tough little boy.   Keep your spirits up he needs that.    Our thoughts are with you guys and we hope to keep hearing good news from you.  Talk to you soon

Terri 

 

Bev,
 
Cody is getting big.  I think he looks a lot like his big sister.  I'm sure
you can't wait to get the tape off his face and finally bring him home.
Have they given you an idea of when he can come home?
 
Jaime

 

 

Hi Mikala!!!!
I love these pictures!!!  
These pictures are so beautiful!!!  You both have the big blue eyes, you sure look like sister and brother!!
Mikala what a big sister you are to hold Cody for 1 1/2 hours!!  Did he try to take the tube out of his mouth, so he could give you a BIG SMILE??? 

 

He is so cute......can't wait to meet him! Our thoughts and prayers are with the little guy always ..........

 

Great news Bev.  I hope Cody’s doing well on his own now.  We keep him and your family in our daily prayers.

 

So when does this little dumplin come home?? Lol. He looks AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The poor little guy!  I feel so bad for him and you guys.  We were all hoping he was going to stay off the ventilator.  Cody has come so far and he's obviously a fighter so he'll get through this.
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

Look at those big blue eyes!!!!!   He is so cute!!!   He looks really great, such a big boy!!
Love him sooooo much!!!!
Love Mom

 

He is just an amazing little fellow , you really are so lucky to have been blessed with an angel like him. I can't wait until May or June to meet him. And Bev, you are just glowing in the pictures with him !!
Love ,
Merry

 

Bev,  He looks so good!!!!!!! Hes such a pretty baby. God Bless him..
--
Kris

 

Hey Bev
 
Cody is so precious, our prayers are with you everyday
 
Love & Hugs Chelle

 

--AWW he looks so cute........
Kris

 

Dear Bev,

You have made my day honey!  I am so happy that he’s doing so well.  He is such a cutie and is a lucky little boy to have you and Spanky for his Mom and Dad.  God knew where to deliver His special angel Cody!  Your faith, strength and commitment to your son is amazing.  Words cannot express how proud I am of you.  Even though I’m not legally or officially part of your family, please know that I still love you and yours.  God bless you, Cody, Spanky and Mikala.

 

 

this is so sad to me.....but glad he's strong enough to fight! lord, give this baby, this family continued blessings, and a break already. please get him well enough to just come home.

 

I LOVE THE PICTURES I'M SO HAPPY THAT HE IS DOING SO WELL!!!!    He is a handsome little fella!!!
Love mom

 

 

Bev:  He is a fighter :)  He will be fine.  I know it.

 

Dear Bev,

You have made my day honey!  I am so happy that he’s doing so well.  He is such a cutie and is a lucky little boy to have you and Spanky for his Mom and Dad.  God knew where to deliver His special angel Cody!  Your faith, strength and commitment to your son is amazing.  Words cannot express how proud I am of you.  Even though I’m not legally or officially part of your family, please know that I still love you and yours.  God bless you, Cody, Spanky and Mikala.

 

He is so cute. I pray everyday for your little man. He is definatley an amazing  little guy.
Love,
Jen

 

Thank you Bev.  You must be a pretty busy lady.  Take care…you, Cody, his Daddy and big sister Mikala are in our prayers each and every day.

Love and prayers,  Aunt Mary Anne, Jamie, Jodie and Matt

Wow, that’s a great milestone for Cody!  He is so darling and we’re all so happy that he’s doing so well.  Can you please send me the website so I can share it with your cousins?  Thanks Bev!

 

Oh , he looks so cute in his new outfits. I'm glad you liked them.-nikki

 

Hello

What great pictures.  He is such a cutie. 

Terri

 

 

Hi Bev,

We’re all so happy that Cody is improving each day….he is still on our prayer list.  I forward all your emails to your cousins…they’re all pulling for the little guy too!

 

Bev,
 
I am so happy to hear this great news!!!  Cody is very precious.  I'm sure
you were so excited to finally hold him and give him kisses.
Hopefully he will come home soon.  He's on his way and fighting strong!
 
Thanks for keeping me updated.  My thoughts are always with you all.
Love Jaime

 

 

Hi,
LOVE the pictures of CODY!! Looks so cute of him holding his hands together.
Love mom
 

Hi!!

HE IS JUST BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!  HE LOOKS LIKE HIS DADDY, THAT CHIN IS SO CUTE! HE LOOKS SO RELAXED IN THE PICTURE, BET HE IS HAPPY THAT THE TUBE IS OUT OF HIS MOUTH!  IN THE PICTURES HE LOOKS LIKE HE HAS REDDISH HAIR. SO HE'S THE LITTLE WILD MAN, THAT WILL KEEP THE NURESE'S BUSY!!!   I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE HIM AGAIN!!!
 
LOVE AND HUGS!!
MOM AND ROCKY

 

 

OM gosh, he has a voice.... i am goose bumps from head to toe, 20 times over.......
xoxoxo

 

PRAISE THE LORD ALMIGHTY!!!!!
thank you Jesus---thank you!

 

Hey Girl SO happy to hear he is doing so well. Must be wonderful to finally hold the little guy. All our prayers are still with you all.
 
Love & Hugs
 
Chelle

 

keep it up fight fight fight!!!   sweet Dakota  fight your heart out!

 

AWWWWW HOW CUTE IS THAT!!!! HE LOOKS LIKE HE IS VERY ALERT BEV.  I AM SO HAPPY THAT HE IS DOING WELL.
I LOVED THAT MOVIE........HE IS SO CUTE.....

 

Bev,, he looks so good!! I prayed for him last night. I hope you can bring him home soon, and that you can hold him in your arms..........Love you Kris

 

OH MY GOSH--BLESS THAT BABY ALRIGHT! KEEP KEEPIN' ON LITTLE BIG MAN!
THANK YOU GUYS SOOOOOO MUCH FOR KEEPING ME IN THE LOOP OF HIS PROGRESS--I PRAY FOR HIM/ AND ALL OF YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY, AND NIGHT!
MANY CONTINUED BLESSINGS

WOW, that is great news. I am so glad to hear Cody is doing so good. I will keep praying for him and pray for him to come home quickly.
Love,
Jen

Bev , that was beautiful. Cody is so lucky to have you for his Mom . I know he feels the same way that you do though he won't be able to express those feelings for years to come . But the day will come when he is old enough to read all the cards and letters , AND poems that you have saved for him and he will say " I have the greatest Mom in the whole wide world and I am damn pproud of it ".
Save everything anyone sends to you and make a special scrapbook of memories for him.
Love ,
Merry

 

I hope that Dakota is getting ever stronger with each passing day. Your family has been in my daily thoughts. I also wanted to convey to you that your poem for your little son touched me deeply. The words you chose were lovely and anyone who reads can only realize that this is a love song for Cody and was truly inspired from your heart. Love you Bev..Hang in there!
 
                                                                            Ronda

 

Well I guess this proves it then. CAWVEY'S ARE STUBBORN!!!!!!!. Great to hear this news. God bless Cody and you guys. And KEEP STRONG.  Our prayers are with you all everyday and can't wait to get that call that you've gotten to hold him. I know that the first time I got to hold Jake after his little thing, I felt so blessed and I never wanted to let him go. We love you guys and miss you's.  GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Aunt Christie and Uncle David

 

 

AWESOME news is right!!! My mom said two rosaries for Cody Thursday morning.

Chrissy

 

 

 

Way to go Cody !!
You and your parents are in our prayers.
 
 Clapping Hands         Kisses 
 
Love Ray and Merry

 

 

Hello

Great news on Cody’s surgery.  That is one tough baby!  Hope everything is going well today and keep me posted on his progress.  How long will he have to be in the hospital after this?  Happy New Year to all of you and we are thinking of you always.

Mark & Terri Lau

 

 

Poor little guy!  Mikala is such a good sister!  I'm sure she's playing an important part in his recovery!

 

 

Hi Bev,
I love this picture!!! He is so handsome. 
Love Mom

 

 

Bev, his scare is nothing-this will fade. he is alive--strong--has the will that i have never known in any human--EVER! prayers continue to cover him, and you guys!
always,
me

 

We're so happy for all of you and yes we're not going to stop praying for Cody...........ever.  We want to see him at home!  Take care and keep the pics coming!
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

 

Bev and Family – We have been praying for your little one. Let us know if you need anything.

The Buterbaugh’s.

 

 

Beverly he is as cute as can be!!!  All of you are never out of our thoughts.  Happy New Year and we'll keep praying!
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

Bev, Spanky, and Mikala,
We just wanted  to let you guys know you are in our hearts and our prayers. We will be saying extra prayers for Cody, you and your family on a very hard but special day. Please let us know how Cody does tomorrow.
We will be thinking of you guys all day tomorrow.
Love,
Russ, Jen, RJ,Alec, Hunter

 

HI BEV.     OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.  LET US KNOW HOW SURGERY  WENT.    LOVE DAD AND EV .

 

Bev...this little angel is so beautiful!!!! Thanks for the pix!! Love you all!!
 
Chrissy

 

Beverly he is so cute.  He must have a guardian angel watching over him!  Please keep us posted and we wish all of you a Happy and Healthy New Year!
 
Love,
Aunt Linda

 

OM Gosh Bev, he continues to steal my heart. This is such progress!! I know you guys aren't 'out of the woods' yet, and I will continue to pray, but this is HUGE!!! He continues to amaze me, his strength is none  that I have ever known in any human being...EVER!!
keep keepin on little man, and god bless this family. mary

 

Hi Spanky, Beverly, and Mikala,
I LOVE THE PICTURES OF CODY  HE IS SO BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!  I can't wait to see him again, if you go on Fri. I would like to go with. We will talk tomorrow. Loads of Love Mom

Thanks for including me Bev.  I forward everything you send me to Jamie, Jodie, Joshua, Matt and his wife Lisa.  He is a cutie and I pray he continues to improve each and every day.  I know your Grandma is watching over him like she watched over you and Kim.  I hope you had a very Merry Christmas and let’s pray for a healthy New Year, especially for Cody.

Love,  Aunt Mary Anne

 

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are praying everyday for you guys. If there is anything we can do for you please let us know. He sure is one beautiful little guy.Our love to you and Spanky.
Russ and Jen

Jen

Hey Bev ,
He is so Precious My Prayers are with you all
 
Hugs,
Chelle

 

 

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